People say long distance relationship does not last long. However I say long distance relationship is the best; provided there exists complete trust and faith to each other. Long distance relationship teaches us to be faithful, trustful, and loyal not only to others but to yourself as well. Of course clouds of doubts and suspicions do come along, yet these are but stepping stones to wards laying our trust, faith and loyalty.
Long distance relationship indicates how much we value each other and how true we are to ourselves and how much it means to be two as one. It tests our patience, temperament, and frustration. As long as we overcome all these and are under our right hand, I think all is well. Although what is most essential in long relationship is the frequent reminder as to how much we are to each other, the communication. On the other hand, the other type of relationship,this hardly takes place, because people are being blinded by the mere pleasures and unhealthy intentions which rather creates a foul atmosphere.
Friends often tell me: “when you will meet you sweetheart?” “Before you get to hold her she might run away ” bla, bla…bla…how ever I am always firm (at least up to this day). What I believe is as long as we are bounded by unwavering thread of trust, faith and loyalty, everything would be at bay. Distance is not something to be feared of; it is for the bold; for those who are willing to spend lot of time alone in the exchange for a little time with the loved ones; it is for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don’t see it really enough.
As Helen Keller says:”The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched; they must be felt with heart”, I think it all depends on how true we are to ourselves. Distance never separates two hearts that really care. We feel sad because we miss our loved ones and this reminds us how lucky are we to have someone so special to miss.